Thursday, September 10, 2015

Laudable Actions Common for Peace Speakers

The mission of a Toastmasters club is to provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment in which every individual member has the opportunity to develop oral communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self-confidence and personal growth.

 


Our president of Peace Speakers, Catherine, opens our meeting by extending a warm welcome to guests and members.  It is one of the many laudable actions Peace Speakers take.  Laudable, our Word for the Day, means praiseworthy or commendable. Our members often extend themselves...working with each other to help in any way they can.  Visitors are warmly received and are encouraged to participate in our meetings as well, if they so desire.



Eric leads our invocation today.  While walking the other day, he noticed some of the Bradford Pear trees are losing their leaves.  Thinking of fall, he shares a Robert Frost poem with us today: 

Gathering Leaves
  By Robert Frost

Spades take up leaves
No better than spoons, 
And bags full of leaves
Are light as balloons.

I make a great noise
Of rustling all day
Like rabbit and deer
Running away.

But the mountains I raise
Elude my embrace,
Flowing over my arms
And into my face.

I may lead and unload
Again and again
Till I fill the whole shed, 
And what have I then?

Next to nothing for weight,
And since they grew duller
From contact with earth,
Next to nothing for color.

Next to nothing for use,
But a crop is a crop,
And who's to say where
The harvest shall stop?


 
Our past president, Robin, shares news from a previous member of Peace Speakers. Becky Johnson made laudable comments about our Toastmasters club, saying that now as a school teacher she feels confident speaking in front of the children.  She credits this to the practice she received at our meetings for Peace Speakers.

Robin also shares that Kristi's husband is having surgery.  She asks that we keep him and his family in our prayers. 






Our Joke Master for the day, Perry, spins a tale related to our Labor Day theme for today's meeting:

A young worker and his boss are standing by the company's shredder.  The boss holds up a piece of paper and announces, "This is a very important document."  He looks at the young worker and asks, "Can you take care of it for me?"  The young worker replies confidently, "Sure thing!" and promptly slips the document into the shredder, as the boss finishes saying, "And I just need one copy."




Vicki Rice, our new Area 66 Governor, paid a visit to our club today.  How laudable!!!!!  And after hearing her speak so positively and vivaciously, it's easy to feel that shared excitement ourselves.  Vicki also loves her work with Texas Roadhouse and handles various legal matters for them.

She shared a few points of interest with us:
  • District 11's Fall conference is Nov. 6-7, 2015 in Fort Wayne, IN:  Fall Conference
  • Check out the upcoming fall contests: District 11 Contests
  • Toastmasters is plugging "8 is great!" in hopes that members will get 8 speeches done in a year.  It's doable!!
  • Continue the thrust to add new members to our club.
  • Our club can practice having a contest so we can conduct a real one some time.
  • In January, have members start shadowing the officers to prepare them for the change of office in July.
  • Consider being the Area Governor 66!  You must have served as a VP of Education or the President of a Toastmasters club and completed 6 speeches to qualify.                                                                       

Vicki adds that she loves our agenda format and plans to incorporate it at her club sometime.  This is what's so laudable about Toastmasters.  You can visit other clubs and utilize the ideas you like.  Attending Toastmasters conferences and contests allows you to hear wonderful speeches and make meaningful connections with interesting people.  




With an important holiday approaching this September weekend, Ada, our Toastmaster for the day, shares that the theme of our meeting is Labor Day.  The idea for protecting workers began back in 1872 in Toronto, Canada.   Labor Day is celebrated the first Monday in September and was created by the labor movement, which is dedicated to social and economic achievements of American workers.

Ada introduces our prepared speaker of the day, who is Robin.  This is Robin's 6th speech, and it focuses on Vocal Variety.  The title is "Karaoke:  Best Practices", and we clap enthusiastically as Robin comes up to the podium.

                        Karaoke: Best Practices


The word karaoke stems from the Japanese words “kara” and “Oke Su Tora”.  It translates to “empty orchestra” or someone who loves to sing the lead vocal to a well-known song.   If you’ve never karaoked before, it goes like this:
1.   You pick a song from a list of thousands of songs.
2.   The karaoke DJ calls your name. You take to the stage.
3.    Lyrics are displayed on a TV screen.
4.   A moving symbol guides you through the lyrics.

Every year for my birthday my husband plans a karaoke party for me. I’m always the first one to sign up to sing. And I sing the whole night. And I LOVE it!
Because I love singing karaoke so much, I’m going to share with you tips on picking the perfect karaoke song. First of all, when most people karaoke, they think of themselves as contestants on The Voice. I think people should think of themselves more as a temporary DJ for the party.

Next, it’s up to you to pick a really great song that sets the mood for fun.  When I pick songs for karaoke, I have three best practices:
  • Is the song appropriate?
  • How will I sound singing it? 
  • How will it make people feel?
The first step in picking a song is “Is the song appropriate?”  MOST IMPORTANT!  At a work Christmas party?  Stay away from songs with explicit lyrics or suggestive lyrics.  At a wedding?  Don’t sing Carrie Underwood’s “Before He Cheats”.  (Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats!) Be considerate of others and pick a short-to-average time song.  And I don’t care if Don McLean shows up at your party — DO NOT sing “American Pie!”  I once made this mistake by singing “Rappers Delight.”  This song is 8 minutes long!   (Robin gives us a taste of it.)

Next, how will I sound singing it?  Be realistic about your singing ability.  It’s impossible to sing any ballad by Whitney Houston. (Robin begins to sing “I Will Always Love You” using a make-shift microphone, but doesn’t keep going to the end.)

You should choose a song that you’re passionate about and one you can relate to.  Rough time at work? Choose “9 to 5” and think of your boss.   (Robin commences to sing intensely into her mic, Workin' 9 to 5, what a way to make a livin'; Barely gettin' by, it's all takin' and no givin'…”) I guarantee it will be a great performance, and probably therapeutic too.

Last, how will it make people feel?
Pick songs that are well-known and get other people singing, like the duet song “Summer Nights” from Grease or a one-hit wonder like “Breakfast at Tiffany’s” by Deep Blue Something.  (Again, Robin sings a bit of it holding the fake mic dramatically.)  And if you’re with Girlfriends, karaoke the song, “Girls Just Want to Have Fun.”  With the guys? Try Country Classic. Or, if you’re like my husband when he’s out with HIS FRIENDS, you’ll channel your inner 90’s boy-band and sing Backstreet Boys’ “I Want It That Way.”

I hope the next time YOU karaoke you will keep these best practices in mind.  Picking a great song is important — and it’s also important to be a good listener. Karaoke is all about having fun!  And it’s easy to have fun when you’re singing along with friends.




Now THAT'S what Toastmasters call "vocal variety"!!!  At the conclusion of Robin's delightful speech, it was obvious that smiling listeners found it most laudable.  It's easy to praise such a commendable effort on the part of a speaker, especially when they're willing to sing for us, too!


Okay, now it's time for TABLE TOPICS!   Catherine's hidden some prompts inside the table tents envelope that relate to Labor Day.  "Who wants to be the first victim, I mean volunteer?" she asks.  Everyone knows that pulling a question can be a little unnerving, but it's fun and gets you thinking on your feet.






What's a favorite job you had in which you felt like you contributed to society?

Betsy says she's held several jobs and retired just 3 years ago.  Her favorite, though, is working as a Mary Kay consultant.  She even had a $1,000 day just last week!  For 26 years, she's met and helped all kinds of people and developed good friendships all over the country.  It's been profitable and she's had a lot of fun as well.




How will you spend your upcoming Labor Day weekend?

In the past, George says he watched a lot of football.  He admires the spirit of workers but can't recall the last time he honored the day.  He has personally done a lot of restaurant work previously and finds it laudable that we celebrate Labor Day.  This year he'll be off work, will likely play on his computer, lay back, and do nothing.



If you could change one thing about American employment, what would it be and why?

Vicki says she'd like to toss the EEOC (Equal Employment Opportunity Commission) into the ocean because things have gotten skewed.  Over 70,000 complaints have been filed (some may be frivolous) but many others are valid discrimination claims that need attention.  Some are covered by Title 7 or are religious or sexual discrimination claims (to name a few).  She'd like a magic wand to get them to focus on all of the valid claims.


If you won the lottery tomorrow and no longer needed to work for income, how would you spend your time?

Alex claims he'd travel while he's young and go see places he normally wouldn't get to see.  He'd follow a passion...even continue his role as a nurse and do public service...maybe even start his own wellness clinic to help the community avoid hospital stays. 





If you could be an instant expert at any job, what would you choose and why?

Perry says he works at the Books-A-Million bookstore and tries to get people to become millionaire book members.  He loves having great connections with people and selling things.  He's met all kinds of people, so if he could be an expert at something, it'd be talking with people about their lives and books.




Members and guests consider what they've heard and vote for the extemporaneous speech that has caught their attention the most.  Today's winner is Alex, and he gets to keep the Table Topics trophy until we convene again in mid-September.  It's laudable that Alex would choose to continue working on the behalf of the community even if he won the lottery.  




Eva, evaluator for Robin's "vocal variety" speech, says it was a laudable speech.  She marvels that Robin stepped in at the last minute with a wonderfully entertaining speech.  She says it had great content and the subject was well-chosen.  Robin was expressive and obviously enjoyed singing.  She loved the "3 Best Practices" Robin gave for doing Karaoke.  She felt the speed of delivery was good, and there was little reliance on notes.  To improve this speech, maybe there could have been a few more dramatic pauses and maybe Robin could have shared what drew her to Karaoke in the first place.





All good (and laudable) things must come to a close, so Peace Keepers conclude their meeting soon thereafter.  Members and guests hang around to commend each other on their presentations or just chat.  It's an easy and sweet conclusion.

If you're a visitor to this blog, this is what often goes on in a Toastmasters meeting.  People are given opportunities in advance to take on roles or just speak spontaneously during Table Topics.  Others choose to give prepared speeches.  You progress as quickly as you like!  Come visit us sometime.  We're a warm and friendly group seeking to better ourselves!


OUR NEXT FEW 2015 MEETINGS:

Sept. 16- Conference Room B


Oct. 7 - Conference Room B


Peace Speakers Toastmasters Club
1st and 3rd Wednesdays (usually)
1:00 - 2:00 p.m.
Presbyterian Center
100 Witherspoon Street
Downtown Louisville, KY

Respectfully submitted,
Kay Chambers
Blogger for Peace Speakers
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Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Peace Speakers Make the Most of Their Meetings

The mission of a Toastmasters club is to provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment in which every individual member has the opportunity to develop oral communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self-confidence and personal growth.



PRESIDENT HAS ENJOYED HER OPPORTUNITY TO SERVE

Our president, Robin, opens our meeting on a cheery note.  We have a slate for next year's officers for Peace Speakers, and with our vote today it was adopted by consensus. Oh happy day!!!!!

President - Catherine Reuning
VP of Education - Megan Neff
VP of Membership - Connie Martinez
VP of Public Relations - Tanja Eikenboom
Secretary - Denise Hayden
Treasurer - Perry Chang
Sergeant at Arms - Kerri Daly
Past President - Robin Rueff

Let us remember those officers who have faithfully served this past year.  Thank you for sharing your gifts, which brought in new members and made Peace Speakers an even better Toastmasters club.

President - Robin Rueff
VP of Education - Catherine Reuning
VP of Membership - Betsy Blocker
VP of Public Relations - Kerri Daly
Secretary - Megan Neff
Treasurer - Perry Chang
Sergeant at Arms - Eva Stimson



INVOCATION RELAYS AN IMPORTANT MESSAGE

Knowing that the theme for this meeting is humor, Robin shares a Dr. Seuss poem (which matches the image atop our agenda today):

If we didn’t have birthdays, you wouldn’t be you.
If you’d never been born, well then what would you do?
If you’d never been born, well then what would you be?
You might be a fish! Or a toad in a tree!
You might be a doorknob! Or three baked potatoes!
You might be a bag full of hard green tomatoes.

Or worse than all that… Why, you might be a WASN’T!
A Wasn’t has no fun at all. No, he doesn’t.
A Wasn’t just isn’t. He just isn’t present.
But you…You ARE YOU! And, now isn’t that pleasant!

Today you are you! That is truer than true!
There is no one alive... who is you-er than you!

Shout loud, “I am lucky to be what I am!
Thank goodness I’m not just a clam or a ham
Or a dusty old jar of sour gooseberry jam!
I am what I am! That’s a great thing to be!
If I say so myself, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!

And that, dear readers, fits the outlook of Peace Speakers...the kind of Toastmasters who honor individuality and people being themselves.  


JOKE MASTER HAS SOME FUN


Catherine shares a few jokes that produce some hearty groans and smiles:

Did you hear the one about the jump rope?  Never mind, I'll skip it.

Why did Helvetica swipe left on Times New Roman?
He wasn't her type.

Why did the fern get excused from the jury?
They found out he was a plant.

What did Delaware?
Her New Jersey.

And a bit of wisdom for your day...
Remember, you can do anything.  And if you can't, you can probably watch someone else do it on YouTube!


You know, even though this Joke Master role hasn't produced any remarkable stand up comedians in our club, we are getting better at our timing, our delivery, and we just keep plugging away at the mastery of joke telling.  However, I would like to see more people share funny anecdotes about their lives.  I've used the Joke Master role to tell several embarrassing tales on myself, and one time I even pretended to be indignant and proceeded to outrageously advise a new member with crazy tips on how to give a speech.  It surprised everyone, and I had fun doing it (even though it scared me to act out like that).  So, members of Peace Speakers, I challenge you to do try something unique as Joke Master.  Experiment some!


FIRST TIME TOASTMASTER MAKES HER DEBUT 

Connie, our Toastmaster for the day, begins the educational part of our program with an explanation for the Dr. Seuss image she put on our agenda. Courageously facing her fears, she used the tool of humor and Dr. Seuss to lend support and encourage fun in our meeting today.  She hoped it would create a more relaxing atmosphere, and it did just that!


TABLE TOPICS MASTER IS ON A ROLL

Because there was no prepared speech for today's meeting, Eric, our Table Topics Master for the day, created 2 sets of prompts for a smack-down session.  The first group of questions focused on humor from our childhood, and the last group was more of a grab bag.  The following are the members who volunteered to draw a prompt about childhood and give a spontaneous 1-2 minute response.

By the way, these are snippets of what people shared!





When as a child did you begin exploring boundaries?  What's the best thing you got away with at any age?

Catherine claims she started exploring boundaries as soon as she could walk...if not earlier.  She followed her older brother's example.  If he pushed back, she would too.  The best thing she got away with was when she sneaked out of a friend's window to hang out with the minor league baseball team.  Neither of them ever got caught!








Describe your earliest childhood memory.  Why do you think you remember it?

Robin fondly recalls a beagle-mix puppy she got from her grandparents on her 3rd birthday.  She had the pick of the litter and chose the runt.  The tail was a stub with a heart-shaped spot on its head.  She remembers this moment because it was her first pet and this dog lived for 15 years. 





If you could go back and be a child again for a week, how old would you choose to be and what would you do?

Connie ponders thoughtfully and then shares that she would choose to be the age of 7 again.  That was a time when her parents moved south.  She didn't feel ready for this move at the time.  She was lost at age 7 and wasn't prepared for or informed about this big change. Then how would she choose to be instead at the age of 7?  She would be more prepared and dream about her future to be the person she wanted to be when she grew up.  


Tell us about a memorable childhood injury.  Was there a scraped knee, a fall, or a broken bone that really stands out in your memory?

Denise tells us that she came around a curb on a bike and broke her leg in 2 places.  The bone actually stuck out, but a neighbor blocked her head so that she couldn't see it.  Everyone poured into the station wagon, and on the way to the hospital they all told her she'd be just fine.  The cast came all the way up to her thigh!
 




A vote was taken at this point for the Table Topics response that members liked the most, and Denise secured the most votes out of these 4 speakers.  That meant she'd be taking on the winner of the next group by responding to one more prompt.



California recently implemented water restrictions.  Some wealthy residents argue that anyone should be able to purchase more expensive water if they can afford it.  Do you agree?  Why or why not?

Kristy says she's aware that California residents balk at conserving water.  However, she doesn't agree with them.  There's not an unlimited supply of water, even though she's not keen on restrictions.  She lived in Denver for a while, and they had similar restrictions in the summer.  As long as they are fair restrictions, she'd probably do the same if she ran the world.





Tell us about a favorite hobby.  Why do you like it so much?

Ada tells us that gardening is her favorite hobby.  She enjoys house and indoor plants.  Her mother influenced her, and it became second nature to grow them.  She has plants in all of the rooms of her home.  Her son had to water them once and told her he counted 90 of them!  She loves seeing them thrive.  The air is cleaner, and she even names them the giver's name when they're a gift.  Plants are like her kids.




Louisville drivers are crazy.  What are things we can do as a city to reduce bad driving habits?

Kay shares that bad drivers get her all riled up.  She wishes a device was installed in people's cars that would zap them when they didn't use a turn signal or didn't go around a turning car that's blocking all of the traffic.  She'd even like to have a Mack truck to lightly bump them to get them to wake up and pay attention!  She's all about the flow...keeping traffic moving and people showing consideration for each other. 


On Monday Donald Trump announced that he is running for president.  What does he have to add to the election conversation?  How do you envision a Trump presidency?

Eva admits that we know Trump is wealthy and powerful.  Obviously, money helps to run a campaign.  As far as his stand on the issues, she thinks he'd be opposite of her, which doesn't make him an appealing candidate.  What would he add to the election conversation?  From what she hears, not very much, even though he might impart some humor.



Another vote was taken a this point for the Table Topics talk that members liked the most, and Kay secured the most votes out of these 4.  Now Denise and Kay will each draw one more prompt and speak again. 


What is your best summer break memory from elementary age and why?

Denise shares that she grew up in a large family with 13 kids.  They were often busy with summer school and didn't get to travel much on summer break. One time, they pitched 2 tents in the back yard - one for the boys and another for the girls.  Mom and Dad stayed in the trailer.  Dad built a fire pit and they made S'mores.  They told ghost stories and pulled pranks on each other, like putting ketchup on a sibling's head and TPing the trailer.  This was one of Denise's fondest summer memories.


If you have 1 or more siblings, tell us about your early childhood relationship.  Were you troublemakers?

Kay shares that growing up in her family, she and her sisters were not troublemakers. Her parents were very strict.  She and her older sister would often create these outdoor fantasies with other neighborhood kids on a big hill.  Her sister always played the guy part, the prince, and Kay was the princess in distress who had to be rescued.  Kay was very jealous of all of the privileges another much younger sister got that she didn't get.  Kay was all about fairness, and she'd split the meatballs into fractions so that all of her sisters got the very same amount.

A third vote is taken, and Kay wins this smack-down round by just 1 measly vote.  Again, Table Topics has given each of us the opportunity to think on our feet and express ourselves.  It's great practice and usually fun, even when you think you don't want to do it.  


Connie concludes her duties as Toastmaster by returning to the topic of humor.  She notes that playing with problems seems to come naturally to children.  When they are confused or afraid, they often turn their problems into a game, giving them a sense of control and an opportunity to experiment with new solutions.  After all, interacting with others in play helps us retain this creative ability.  Humor takes us to a higher place where we can view the world from a more relaxed, positive, creative, joyful, and balanced perspective.  As Connie noted on our agenda today, humor is a positive medicine!  

Great job as Toastmaster for the very first time, Connie!  As a newer member, your willingness to put yourself out there and take on numerous roles is impressive. 


Robin, our out-going president at the end of June, closes our meeting expressing gratitude.  She concludes, "It's been my honor to lead our club.  Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to do so!  It's been a wonderful year, and I look forward to seeing where the club goes in the next club year."  

And knowing that Father's Day is upon us this weekend, Robin also shares a poignant quote by Jim Valvano and one that is personally meaningful to her:  "My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person.  He believed in me."  



Perhaps you are a visitor to this blog.  By all means, drop in and visit us during an upcoming meeting!  We are a friendly and relaxed club.  Who knows, you might just enjoy yourself and come to understand why we gather together two times a month.  The camaraderie, experience, fun, and growth Peace Speakers enjoy are just a few of the reasons to check us out!


OUR NEXT FEW 2015 MEETINGS:

July 1 - Conference Room B


July 15 - Conference Room B


Peace Speakers Toastmasters Club
1st and 3rd Wednesdays (usually)
1:00 - 2:00 p.m.
100 Witherspoon Street
Downtown Louisville, KY

Respectfully submitted,
Kay Chambers
Blogger for Peace Speakers
To access our previous blogs, here are the links
(We kept running out of space and needed to start new ones!)  

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