Tuesday, March 25, 2014

Spring is Ushered in at Our March 19, 2014 Meeting

The mission of a Toastmasters club is to provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment in which every individual member has the opportunity to develop oral communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self-confidence and personal growth.

Blogger's note:  Members, please read the visitor's paragraph at the end of my blog as well.  There's a link for you to enjoy.

Ada, President of Peace Speakers, ushers in thoughts on spring by sharing this poem:

Spring is in the air!
It is almost time for halter tops, T-shirts, shorts, and flip-flops if you dare.
Humidity may cause one's hair to show signs of frizz...
But enough of those long winter nights of watching show biz.
No matter how hot summer days may be...
I'm just happy to see greener grass and even the weeds.
Spring, you have taken so long to come...
But now our energies have been renewed...
                                Because winter has come and gone!

Ada welcomes 2 visitors to our club this afternoon.  Megan is returning for her second visit and joins our Peace Speakers club as a new member this very day.  Yeah!!!  And Connie is a new visitor who admits that English is a second language for her.  She's looking for a safe space to improve her English, and we think our club is that place, Connie!

An official vote is taken to welcome 2 new members into Peace Speakers, Kerri and Megan. This vote is a formality that is required by Toastmasters, and we knew their acceptance would be 100%.  Thank you for trusting us, Kerri and Megan, and for being willing to grow and share yourselves with us!    



Robin, our Vice President of Education, looks ebullient, our Word for the Day meaning happy and full of energy. She's sharing the news that the Executive Director of the Presbyterian Mission Agency loves our winning Peace Speakers video and wants to visit our club in the future.  We are certainly looking forward to her arrival!

Note to everyone: Robin exudes ebullience more often than not...so this look isn't atypical.

                 

                         INVOCATION LEADER

Fred, who leads our Invocation today, shares a heartfelt prayer:

"Teach me to be a better listener. Soften my heart so that I may receive counsel willingly and with gratitude. When I stumble or make a mistake, give me the humility to accept Godly correction so that I may grow in understanding. As I learn to be a good listener, I pray that you would bring me the blessings of spiritual maturity.”

I am struck by the fact that listening, really listening, is an art that not only brings us spiritual blessings but helps us as Peace Speakers as well.  When we practice the art of listening, we may gain inspiration for our next speech and most certainly learn from each other, helping us grow and change in positive ways.  


             JOKE MASTER RIDDLES US

      Catherine, our Joke Master for the Day, expresses ebullience as she shares several riddles:

             

                   What flowers grow on faces?                    
 
                                      Tulips (two lips)!                                        



When do monkeys fall from the sky?

During Ape-ril showers!



Why did the bird go to the hospital?

It needed tweetment! 


Why is everyone so tired on April 1st?

Because they just finished a long 31-day March!


PREPARED SPEECH/TOAST FOR THE DAY

Perry, our prepared speaker for the day, completes Project #4, "Presenting an Award" from the Advance Communications Manual - Special Occasions Speeches. These are the remarks Perry made at the Good-Bye Event for Phil Lloyd-Sidle, outgoing Pastor of James Lees Memorial Presbyterian Church.  He's holding a picture of Phil below as he begins his toast.


I’m Perry Chang, from Crescent Hill Presbyterian Church. I bring greetings for our pastor, Jane Larsen-Wigger, who is out of town and unable to be here today. For the entire 10 years I’ve been in Louisville, and at Crescent Hill, Phil and Tricia and their kids have been listed in our church directory. If I understand it right, that’s because Phil and Trish were involved in Crescent Hill before they came over to James Lees. We still claim part of them.


One way in which Crescent Hill folks and Phil have stayed in touch is through our shared involvement in the joint English language learners education ministry –English classes for immigrants – run by Crescent Hill, James Lees, and – at different times – Covenant Community and 2nd Presbyterian Church – with support from the presbytery, the James Lees Spanish-language worshiping community, and the 1741 Frankfort Avenue collective.



For all of our five years, the ELL ministry has had an informal leadership team. Different people have been on the team at different times, but Phil has always been at the center of it, all the more so during our first year and during this past year. Phil has emailed folks, developed agendas, run meetings, taken notes, answered the phone, and served as Treasurer Liaison.



But Phil has also done many other things for the ministry, some of it more unusual than others. He’s designed flyers, he’s taught an English class for one term, he’s torn up and laid flooring for rooms we needed to use, he’s shop-vac-ed flooded floors in the dining room, and he’s run out to buy chicken when no food arrived for supper.



More than any of this, however, Phil has been the emotional center of the ministry. Last fall he described me as the “heart and soul” of the ministry. As soon as I heard that, I said to myself – I might be one of the junior heart and souls, or vice heart and soul, but Phil really should be describing himself!  Phil has served as a kind of pastor for the ministry – getting to know every student, teacher, and other volunteer, checking in with us, bouncing ideas back and forth with us, and supporting us. It’s in this role that I suspect Phil will really be irreplaceable.





The ELL ministry has a tradition on the last day of each term of ending class early and returning for dessert and a little “graduation” ceremony. Among other things, we hand each of our students certificates honoring them for their participation, hard work, and achievement in that term’s classes. As Phil “graduates” from our ministry, it seems only appropriate that we should give him a certificate as well. Allow me read what the certificate says:



Perry gives the award to Fred (Phil)
“The Crescent Hill Presbyterian Church-James Lees Memorial Presbyterian Church-Covenant Community Church English Language Learners Education Ministry honors Phil Lloyd-Sidle for leadership of the English language learners ministry between 2009 and 2014.”  It is signed by Frances Taylor, one of our site coordinators.  Phil – Congratulations on your graduation, we love you, we’ll miss you, and we hope to see you again periodically.


 SPEECH EVALUATOR
 
Bethany, today's speech evaluator, found Perry's toast to Phil very enjoyable.  Included were lots of interesting details about the person Perry was toasting and ample reasons as to why Phil deserved the accolades.  Using no notes, it was obvious that Perry knew his subject well, and Bethany could tell he had a real affection for Phil.  He was relaxed and expressive as he shared all the reasons why he appreciated Phil.  The only thing Bethany might have wanted to hear more of was other anecdotes about Phil.




TABLE TOPICS MASTER THINKS SPRING!


Everyone seems to be on the same page this meeting.  With spring's arrival tomorrow after one of the longest and snowiest winters we can remember, Kerri decides all of her prompts for Table Topics will relate in some way to spring.

Kerri asks for volunteers to draw first, and each question allows the speaker 1-2 minutes to respond accordingly.  This is a fun time when we learn so much more about our members and visitors, if the latter decides to participate. 



 What is your favorite spring flower and why?

Mulling this one over, Eric admits that bright yellow dandelions come to mind, which remind him of his backyard that has not been maintained.  Being an active outdoors person, he associates the dandelion with parks and mountain bike trails.  It also reminds him of clover, a companion plant that he likes seeing among all the dandelions at the onset of spring.  




What is your favorite outdoor activity in spring and why?

Robin really enjoys heading to the park or the zoo with her children.  She loves taking walks with her family around the reservoir as well.   She also uses running to clear her head and plan for accomplishing personal goals.  She associates spring with running the mini-marathon race, but she won't be involved this year.  She looks forward to entering the race again another year, though.



Do you have a favorite spring fruit/vegetable? If so, how do you like it prepared?

Connie, a visitor to our club today, was willing to take a prompt.  She smiles and admits that she really doesn't have a favorite fruit or veggie.  She loves fruit, though, much more than vegetables and sometimes eats them 3 times a day.  She has to work harder to get veggies into her diet, though, and knows that this is important.  



What are some of your favorite (and least favorite) “spring cleaning” chores?
  
Kay (moi) admits that she really doesn't have any favorite spring cleaning chores. She's not into sweeping, mopping or dusting.  The only time she remembers cleaning her home and really enjoying it was when she put on Madonna CD and kept repeating to herself, "It's an honor and a privilege to clean my home."  Normally, she has help cleaning her Victorian home, but she and her husband sent their cleaning help back home to Alaska to be reunited with his family.  So the next time Kay cleans, she'll have to crank up the Madonna music again.


 What are some of your favorite activities to do inside    when “spring showers” are happening outside?

Ada shares that she prefers playing spa music over Madonna's songs while at home since it keeps the atmosphere mellow.  That allows her time to think, to be still, to meditate, and to do yoga.  She also enjoys watching the rain showers and the puddles form.  She loves seeing how the earth responds to the rain with all of its springtime growth and greenery.  




When the vote is taken for the favorite Table Topics speech, Kay is awarded the trophy.  Thank you, Kerri, for your thoughtful spring-time questions.  Maybe spring will pay attention to our interest and finally come on board! We'll all feel ebullient at spring's onset after the weather truly goes warm.


If you're a visitor to this blog, come to one of our meetings and experience Toastmasters for yourself.  Who knows...as a member of our club, opportunities to grow your communication skills could end up enhancing your professional and personal relationships! And that would bring a feeling of ebullience!  On that note, if you want to be happy and full of energy (ebullient), then head to this link for Pharrell William's "Happy" song, which was up for an Oscar recently:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6Sxv-sUYtM  

We are an open Toastmasters club, 
so please pay us a visit!

OUR NEXT FEW 2014 MEETINGS:

 APRIL 2 - Conference Room B

APRIL 16 - Conference Room B

Peace Speakers Toastmasters Club
Presbyterian Center
1st and 3rd Wednesdays (usually)
1:00 - 2:00 p.m.
100 Witherspoon Street
Downtown Louisville, KY

Respectfully submitted,
Kay Chambers
VP of Public Relations for Peace Speakers
To access our previous blogs, here are the links





   







  










Thursday, March 6, 2014

Churlish Natures are Unseen at March 5, 2014 Meeting

The mission of a Toastmasters club is to provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment in which every individual member has the opportunity to develop oral communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self-confidence and personal growth.


Ada, our president, offers up her usual churlish greeting.  Whoops!  I mean just the opposite!!!  Our word of the day is churlish, meaning surly or difficult to deal with, and Ada is the living antithesis of this.  Her smile is friendly, her mood is genuinely warm, and today she opens our meeting with the encouraging chant, "Spring has sprung!"  Now we all know better.  Spring is still hiding under the snow and ice today, but Peace Speakers choose to will spring into happening.  And winter's staying power?  This too shall pass!


Today Peace Speakers celebrate their winning video creation for the recent Toastmasters International Branding Contest.  Here's the link to view it:  

Thanks to individual members, delicious potluck goodies are on the menu for our celebration.  Robin starts to play the Oscar nominee song "Happy" just as our meeting begins.  She also shares a District 11 Public Relations Contest flyer in hopes our club will make at least one entry in a given division.  



A  LOVELY SURPRISE

Robin and Kay receive accolades from Ada
Ada makes an unexpected tribute to Robin and me (Kay).  Handing us flowers, she thanks us for getting our winning video up and running.  How?  The idea was Robin's, and then I (Kay) showed up at our next executive meeting with numerous word possibilities for each letter of TOASTMASTERS.  We were off and running after that, and the win means we will receive a Peace Speakers Toastmasters banner valued at $100.  Thank you, Robin, for taking the initiative and for securing the videographer, too!



CELEBRATORY INVOCATION

Kay's invocation today is a prayer that uses the 12 words we chose for our winning Peace Speakers video.  Those select words are highlighted in blue in the prayer below:



Amazing God of Love and Light,

Today we joyfully gather together to celebrate our good fortune and seek inspiration for the challenges before us.  We are members of Peace Speakers, a trans-cultural collection of thoughtful people who are accountable to each other by offering supportive ideas, encouraging words, and meaningful suggestions as we expand ourselves personally and professionally.  Help us be thorough in our approaches and affirming with each other as we talk and lead.  Stir us to give organized feedback that is rewarding and transformative in the lives of our members. We each have to decide how strong our desire is to be successful in our communication and leadership skills.  Inspire us to stay committed in Peace Speakers, push us out of our comfort zones, and help us yield spectacular results from our involvement and hard work.  With your influence, God, there is nothing we cannot achieve.  Our grateful hearts are full as we close this humble prayer.  Amen.




JOKE MASTER SHARES SOME RIDDLES


Fred shares a few humorous jokes with us:


How does the man in the moon cut his hair?

Eclipse it!


What did the big bucket say to the little bucket?

You look a little pail!


Why did the skeleton go to the party alone?

He had no body to go with him!


What do you call a bear with no teeth?

A gummy bear.


                                       How do you fix a broken tuba?

                                       With a tuba glue!




Betsy, our Toastmaster for the day, opens the educational part of our meeting.  Atop our agenda today is the picture of our club members creating our winning Toastmasters video.  She expresses joy at how quickly and masterfully we were able to develop this winning concept.


TABLE TOPICS MASTER FOCUSES ON THE CURRENT

Eva, our Table Topics Master for the day, shares that her prompts for our 1-2 minute impromptu talks focus on Lenten practices.  She adds that even if you don't adhere to the practice of Lent, there are always things we want to change.  And, that's the overall focus of her questions today.

NOTE:  As the blogger, I added a few comments in italics after each Table Topics speech.


I should try not to think about _________ during Lent.


Randy mulls this one over and admits that he gave up chocolate for Lent this year.  But chocolate isn't really that big a deal.  He feels it's more important to focus on avoiding negative thoughts while at work, at church, and any other situations we find ourselves in at the time.  He reminds us to think more about all the ways we are blessed and chooses to not think about negative thoughts during Lent.  (Unlike you, Randy, I'd be consumed with wildly negative thoughts if my dark chocolate was out of the picture!!!!)





I should give up _________ for Lent.

Eric shares that he has wanted to buy a car for some time now.  He admits he's wasted hours on YouTube and the Internet searching for the car of his dreams, and this is driving his wife crazy!  He admits he's been susceptible to endless car commercials while trying to make a good decision.  In the end, he thinks that maybe he should give up looking for that special car to buy and just get the one his wife wants!  (Hmmmmmm, Eric, have you not learned the lesson "Happy wife...happy life?"  Maybe go car hunting together!)



I should give up _______ for Lent.

Ada confesses that she loves piddling.  It's so soothing!  She doesn't watch TV and instead is upstairs, downstairs, and all over the house piddling from one activity to the next.  She is searching for a way to stop this.  She wants to focus on getting more rest, doing more meditation, and spending more time with God.  So she thinks giving up piddling for Lent would serve her well.  (Personally, as a professional piddler who operates in a bumblebee-like way around the house doing one thing and then another, I often amuse my husband.  It could be a lot worse!)





I should spend more time doing _______ during Lent.

Catherine shares that a few years ago at a work conference, she chatted with a fellow who had taken on the spiritual practice of a daily walk to get closer to God and because he was nature-oriented.  She admits that she feels the same but finds it easy to be lazy and stay home instead.  However, now that spring is upon us, she will add in a daily walk as her Lenten practice this year.  (I may want to join you for a few of those walks around our neighborhood, Catherine!)



What should you do more of during Lent?

Fred suggests he'd be better off saying "God bless you" more often.  After all, it's a blessing to be alive and associate with others and do things that make others happy.  "God bless you" is biblical and appropriate to say in many situations.  It is also much appreciated.  It's a privilege to receive such a blessing as well.  A friend of his died of cancer recently, and they were able to exchange this blessing between them before he passed.  That was meaningful to each of these men. (So sorry to hear of the loss of your friend, Fred.  How fortunate you were to be able to express those heartfelt words to him.)



AND THE WINNER IS...Fred! 

After a vote, members decide that Fred has delivered the most compelling Table Topics talk.  He gets to take home the trophy until our next meeting on March 19. 



Ada, returns to the podium after an interesting round of Table Topics.  She closes our Peace Speakers meeting reminding us that soon spring will emerge and we'll be enjoying the fruits of it before long.  Some of us have been feeling a bit churlish awakening week after week only to find layers of ice, more snow, additional school closings, and cancelled events due to the frigid weather.  There is a lot to look forward to...and in the meantime...we'll take one day at a time, be fully present, and make the most of what is presented to us.


If you're a visitor to this blog, drop in for a few of our meetings and see what they're like. Unlike today, we usually have a speech in addition to Table Topics. The meetings are meaningful and fun. Who knows, maybe you'll find opportunities to grow your communication skills, enhancing your professional realm and personal relationships. 


We are an open Toastmasters club, 
so please pay us a visit!

OUR NEXT FEW 2014 MEETINGS:

 MARCH 19 - Conference Room B

APRIL 2 - Conference Room B

Peace Speakers Toastmasters Club
Presbyterian Center
1st and 3rd Wednesdays (usually)
1:00 - 2:00 p.m.
100 Witherspoon Street
Downtown Louisville, KY

Respectfully submitted,
Kay Chambers
VP of Public Relations for Peace Speakers
To access our previous blogs, here are the links
(We kept running out of space and needed to start a new one!)