Monday, December 29, 2014

Peace Speakers Elucidate Often!

The mission of a Toastmasters club is to provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment in which every individual member has the opportunity to develop oral communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self-confidence and personal growth.

Ada opens our Peace Speakers meeting while Robin, our president, is out on maternity leave.  She gets Peace Speakers in the holiday mode by asking each of us to share one word for the Christmas season.  Some of the words shared are joy, peace, family, dreams, and cheer.  

With our invocation leader absent today, Ada creates an invocation on the spur of the moment.  The word of the day is elucidate, which means to make something clear or explain.  I'd like to elucidate that Ada is calm and accomplished in doing this spontaneous invocation, and it sounds as though she's worked on it for hours.  I think Ada would tell me this wouldn't be the case had she not been so consistently involved in Toastmasters and honed her speaking and thinking skills throughout the years.

                                 
Connie and Maria
Ada also introduces a guest, Maria, who is taking classes at JCC and U of L.  This is Connie's adopted daughter, and she says Maria is a very humble, positive, and angelical spirit.  We are honored to have her with us today!  (Please forgive the side shot of the two I sat beside.  I forgot to get full-face photos afterwards!)


Catherine, Vice President of Education, notes that our Area 66 Governor, John Frederick, sent her an email outlining several opportunities for officers' training in the near future.  She will send members this information soon.  No matter how many times one has served in an officer's role, there is always something new to be learned from attending these trainings, and it's an opportunity to meet and confer with other Toastmasters in our area.





JOKE MASTER SHARES SOME LETTERS

Kay, Joke Master for the day and your blogger, shares letters written by children to Santa.  Allow me to elucidate that these letters have some childlike misspellings in them that I haven't changed. I have also added a few images to further help you understand them.


Dear Santa, 

How are you and the reindeer doing?  I'm doing fine.  I want a new football because my little brother always trys to steal mine.  He may look sweet but he is the DEVIL.

P.S.  How do you get in to my house on Christmas?



Dear Santa, 

My mom said to send you are christmas list.  Kids at school are still picking on Amber
and its not fair because she doesn't do anything to them and it makes me mad.  I prayed that they will stop but god is bisy and needs your help.  Is it against the rules to give gifts early?  Can you ask Big Time Rush to come to Amber's B-day party?  It will make her so happy.  If you can't get them to come, just get her everything she ask for. Thanks Santa.  

P.S.  My mom throw the best B-day partys. You can come if you want.
 FYI, readers!  This is Big Time Rush.


Dear Santa,

We think you might be poisoned by the cookies, so don't eat them.  Mom went wrong somewere.  This is our first year with Callie, our new cat.  Please put her presents in the stocking with the dog on it.  As you might know our dog Moddie died.  So please don't try to remind mom or she will break out sobbing.  We have all been very good this year.  We hope you don't have a bad ride.  

P.S.  Santa your the best ever!



Andrew Bynum
Dear Santa,

Can you help Andrew Bynum get taller?  I know he's already super tall, but he hasn't gotten a lot of rebounds in a long time, so I guess he needs to be taller. 

Sometimes when I stand on MY tippy toes, I can reach the cookie jar even though my Mommy moves it to the back of the counter.  But that's the only naughty thing I've done, so is it okay if I ask for a bike?


Dear Santa, 

You better bring my pony this year.

Or there will be consequenses!

(This letter had a primitive drawing of a horse rearing up on it.) 


A TOASTMASTER'S FIRST EXPERIENCE

Eventually, our newer members take the helm and volunteer to be the Toastmaster for a meeting.  On this occasion, we get to enjoy the leadership of Megan, our Toastmaster for the day.  Her role involves contacting those who have agreed to fill the club's roles on this day and conferring with them about a possible theme for our meeting.  She prepares the agenda, tops it with a thoughtful image, and sets the tone for the educational part of our meeting.  She introduces speakers and keeps our meeting moving along smoothly.

As Toastmaster, Megan moves gracefully from one activity to the next.  She emphasizes a Japanese Proverb on a wintery image atop our agenda that says, "One kind word can warm three winter months."  As Peace Speakers, this speaks to the core of who we are.


TABLE TOPICS DRAW OUT PEOPLE


Kerri, our Table Topics Master for the day, offers up a tray of prompts to get people sharing.  She asks for volunteers first, hoping that members or guests will raise their hands.  Her questions pertain to the holiday season, and this gives individuals a chance to spontaneously practice thinking and speaking skills.






What’s your favorite holiday tradition? How did it start and why is it so special to you?

Catherine shares that going to her non-in-laws for Christmas is her favorite holiday tradition.  She loves going to John and Eva's because they treat her like a daughter even though they are not blood relatives. They're all one big family:  John and Eva, her parents, brother, sister-in-law and nephew.  The tradition began 7-8 years ago when their nephew was born.  From that time on they began meeting outside of Knoxville, TN, for their annual holiday gathering.



If you could only get one gift, what would you ask for this holiday season?

Connie ponders thoughtfully and decides that the one gift she most wants is creativity.  She admits that she's not working right now.  She feels that she needs to come up with something different.  Creativity isn't a thing, but it will give her an answer.  Creativity will bring her a car, a house, and everything she wants if she uses it appropriately. 





What’s your least favorite part about the holiday season and why? 
  
Eva shares that the least favorite part of this season for her is the commercialism.  She typically avoids the malls and instead plans ahead to pick up gifts when traveling.  She also goes online to avoid the crowded stores.  She adds that people don't need more stuff.  She likes the tradition of giving and its thoughtfulness, but sometimes she feels like she'd enjoy it more without the commercial type gifts.





Share the New Year’s Resolutions you've planned for 2015, if you have any.

Ada admits that she's has set no resolutions at this time.  Traditionally, she doesn't bother since she never follows through with them.  However, she does have some goals and to-do lists that she compiles.  If accomplished, that will make her New Year's resolution possibility even greater!




Did you catch any extra good deals this holiday season? If so, what were they and where did you find them?

Kay admits that she does a lot of her shopping on Discover.com using points earned to get gift cards that her relatives desire for Christmas.  She also went online looking for a request of Smartwool socks, which she learned were VERY expensive at $15-20 per pair.  She found them on sale for around $12 with free shipping, and found a book on Amazon for half price that was actually new. 




What’s your favorite part about the holiday season and why?

Megan shares that her favorite part of this holiday season is actually two-fold.  She gets to go home to her parents and she also gets time off from work.  This gives her an opportunity to relax, travel some, and see the family.  She makes a point to slow down, focus on family and have fun.  One of her favorite activities is relaxing in her pajamas and watching Netflix.





Do you have any holiday plans this year? If so, share them with us!

Lynn tells us that her husband's family comes to their home for the holidays.  They actually have 2 Christmases on 2 different days.  It's a bit of a roller coaster with 2 dinners and 2 celebrations to prepare for and to participate in during the holiday season.  She admits to being excited but also a little overwhelmed.



Members enjoying other Table Topics responses




After the vote, Kerri announces the winner for the best Table Topics talk, which only lasts 1-2 minutes.  Connie, who wished for the gift of creativity this holiday season, earns the most votes.  She is awarded the Table Topics trophy and gets to keep it until our next meeting on January 7, 2015.  That's a really great way to bring in the New Year, Connie!



 

Megan closes the educational part of our program asking us to take warmth and positive energy out with us this holiday season.  She reminds us again that our interactions with others...just one kind word...can warm people's hearts during these cold winter months.




Ada adjourns our Peace Speakers meeting reminding us that this is our final gathering in 2014.  She hopes we all find happiness in this season and experience the spirit of Christmas.  She wishes us peace, hope and love, and adds the reminder that gas prices are down, which gives us even more reasons for joy.  She looks forward to 2015 with all of its offerings.




And to those who have visited these blogged pages, please grace us with your company and pay us a visit in the New Year.  We promise to be welcoming and civil plus fun and educational.  What a great way to start 2015!!!!

We are an open Toastmasters club, 
so please pay us a visit!

OUR NEXT FEW 2015 MEETINGS:

 Jan. 7 - Conference Room B


 Jan. 21 - Conference Room B


Peace Speakers Toastmasters Club
1st and 3rd Wednesdays (usually)
1:00 - 2:00 p.m.
100 Witherspoon Street
Downtown Louisville, KY

Respectfully submitted,
Kay Chambers
Blogger for Peace Speakers
To access our previous blogs, here are the links
(We kept running out of space and needed to start new ones!) 

Monday, November 24, 2014

Peace Speakers are Beholden to the Toastmasters Organization and More!

The mission of a Toastmasters club is to provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment in which every individual member has the opportunity to develop oral communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self-confidence and personal growth.

Ada, presiding officer, opens our meeting while Robin, our president, is out on maternity leave. Robin has relayed to Ada, "My baby is in no hurry to come."  So we wait in anticipation of her baby's arrival...hopefully soon and safely!

Ada thanks Area 66 Governor John Frederick for visiting us today.  She notes that he's continuing to encourage us to become a distinguished club, and Peace Speakers continue to make progress towards that goal.

Peace Speakers are beholden to John for his visit today.  Beholden is the Word of the Day, and it means indebted to or grateful for, and members are encouraged to practice using this word when speaking today.


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Kerri, our invocation leader, relays a poem for us to reflect upon today.  It's right in alignment with Catherine's earlier message about gratitude.






JOKE MASTER SHARES A  HUMOROUS ANECDOTE

Today I’m sharing an anecdote…a recent experience with a friend who is actually an ex-boyfriend.   We occasionally meet for coffee and talk about really important life events… like the curly perm I suggested he get back in the late 1970’s, which he claims is the reason he’s balding today.    :  )


Well, the other day while he and I were catching up over coffee, it hit me that time had slipped away and I was supposed to be at the movie theater meeting my husband.  I had walked to this coffee shop, and with no phone or car, I had no way to rush off.  Borrowing my ex’s cell to call my husband, I yelped, “I’m sooooo sorry, honey!  We got lost in conversation! ”



My husband replied, “Well, I’m sitting here in Baxter’s parking lot and the movie starts in 5 minutes.” 


I think I mumbled something like, “Alright!  See ya!” before hanging up.  Then I begged my ex-boyfriend to drop me off at the movie theater.  “Sure!” he said.  Driving speedily, he kept making ridiculous siren noises and yelling, “Movie emergency!!!  Clear the roads!!!” 



Well, I'm embarrassed to admit, that my listening and processing skills in this little crisis were kaput.  I had my ex drop me off at the wrong theater.   Arriving at Village 8, I leaped from the car and sprinted inside. 


You can imagine the astonished looks of their employees when I burst in exclaiming, "Where's my ticket?  Did my husband leave me a ticket?"  I got 3 blank stares, especially from the popcorn guy.  I immediately realized I must be in the wrong theater and pleaded for a phone, which they stretched outside an exterior window where the guy takes ticket money. 



I called my husband groaning, "I'm the worst wife ever!!  I don’t have a car and I need you to come pick me up at Village 8.”  When he pulled up, he just shook his head and calmly asked, "Didn't you hear me say I was in the Baxter parking lot?"  In retrospect, yes…in panic mode, no!  (I guess that bang on top of my head several weeks ago rattled some of my vital thinking parts.) 



We did finally go see the movie “Gone Girl”, but the only real gone girl in this episode was me.



And, when my ex-boyfriend heard what happened, he said it took him 10 minutes to wind down from laughing and that I definitely picked the right guy for me. 





TOASTMASTER OPENS THE EDUCATIONAL PROGRAM

Catherine, our toastmaster for the day, draws attention to a beautiful fall picture she's placed on our agenda.  She shares the following quote:


"Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life.   It turns what we have into enough, and more.  It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity.  It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend."     
                               ~ Melody Beattie

Catherine mentions that she has functioned relatively well in the midst of chaos today both at home and at work.  She reminds us that there's plenty to be grateful for even in the face of turmoil.  Speaking of, she realizes she doesn't have as much information as she'd like to introduce our prepared speaker for the day and leans in on the podium to banter with him.

                                             


Catherine asks John for tag team support, which he readily supplies.  He has been our area 66 governor for 1 year now and has been an active toastmaster for 13 years.  Peace Speakers are beholden to John not only for his visit today but the fact he originally sponsored our club back in 2005 when it was just beginning.  We certainly do appreciate your ongoing support, John!


PREPARED SPEAKER GIVES AN ICE-BREAKER SPEECH
 
Using no notes, John launches in to his talk sharing that he's been a toastmaster since 1981.  At the time he was working at a bank, and his supervisor suggestion he join Toastmasters.  He knew he needed to learn how to speak with ease and confidence.  Today some in the Toastmasters field find it hard to believe that John's an introvert, given that he's able to speak in front of groups so comfortably. 

John admits that Toastmasters has helped him learn how to share and talk confidently in front of audiences.  It has propelled him in his business and personal life.  He has also become a lay person at his Methodist church and has even given sermons.  


Toastmasters has provided John an avenue for growth and learning in the context of the organization.  As a result, he has continued to learn from his many experiences outside of his club as well.  

John said that he stayed in Toastmasters until the bank let him go due to an acquisition.  He finally reconnected with the organization as a consultant.  As an I.T. guy, he had to do presentations to teams and customers.  He spoke to Toyota's entire supplier base in Georgetown, which consisted of several hundred people.  He admits that it would have freaked him out totally had he not been a toastmaster.
After giving his initial 10 speeches from the first Toastmasters manual, John finished 9 advanced manuals (and now there are 15 of them)!    John eventually became the president of his Toastmasters club and today is our area 66 governor.  Through continued participation and progress, he's learned so much more moving around the state. 

He wholeheartedly believes that Toastmasters is a method to learn how to grow, speak, and become a better leader.  Drawing his speech to a close, he encourages us to tell others to consider doing the same.  
   


TABLE TOPICS MASTER GETS US 
REMINISCING ABOUT THANKSGIVING


Tanja, our Table Topics Master for the day, has prepared quotes as prompts for our 1-2 minute talks today.  She asks for volunteers who are willing to speak spontaneously, and members begin to raise their hands.  We all know that this is one of the best ways to practice speaking in front of people.  And being in a safe environment makes it all the more likely individuals will step out of their comfort zones.  Besides that, it's fun and it's informative!






“The funny thing about Thanksgiving, or any big meal, is that you spend 12 hours shopping for it then go home and cook, chop, braise, and blanch. Then it's gone in 20 minutes and everybody lies around sort of in a sugar coma and then it takes 4 hours to clean it up.”  Ted Allen

Eva notes that we call all relate to this quote, especially when preparing the Thanksgiving meal.  Time spent in preparation seems out of proportion to eating it.  But she admits she still enjoys this aspect, being at home with the smells coming out of the kitchen.  Thanksgiving's a time to chat with family and relax.  It's a good way to spend the day once a year.







"I would rather sit on a pumpkin, and have it all to myself, than be crowded on a velvet cushion.” 
                                         Henry David Thoreau

  Kerri fully agrees with the author and admits that she's a pumpkin fanatic.  She shares how she loves to buy pumpkin flavored items and that she just had pumpkin coffee earlier that morning.   Her family's coming in for Thanksgiving, and her mom is trying to get her to bake pumpkin pies with her.  While she loves eating them, she suggested to her mother that she'd be a much better taste tester instead.







"Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.”  
 W.T. Purkiser


Catherine definitively states, "I agree."  She shares that what's a blessing to one isn't to another.  Holidays show us this the most.  Being with family can be a blessing for some but a stressor for others.  What really matters is our perspective of the experience we are having.  We can decide to learn from our experiences and utilize them in order to make our lives better.







Hailey is Kristi's Seeing Eye dog


"November comes
and November goes,
with the last red berries and the first white snows."

-- Clyde Watson




Kristi shares that Hailey, her Seeing Eye dog, loves the snow and ice more than she does.  Hailey goes out for a snow appetizer and recently grabbed the ice that fell off the dumpster.  Kristi used to go snow skiing in Colorado when it was fluffy.  She likes that better than icy conditions.  She admits that she was not beholden (word of the day) to anyone when she had a mango smoothie recently.  


"A turkey without seasonal angst is like a baseball game without a national anthem, a winter without snow, or a birthday party without candles."   
              - Lauri Colwin  

Ada shares that this quote gets her thinking about turkey at Thanksgiving, and she wonders what that turkey went through before it ended up on the table.  Then she launches into talking about preparing one and using seasonings to make it inviting to eat.  She likens seasonings to what enhances our lives as we living them.  The drama, chaos and good times represent the seasonings.  We can apply that to events in our lives, and that in turn makes them whole.

 WHAT????  WHO'S THE WINNER OF TABLE TOPICS?

There is no clear winner today, and this is a first: a 4-way tie!  So we proclaim that all of the participants are winners, which of course we already knew. 


Catherine draws the educational part of our program to a close.  She suggests we go with gratefulness in our hearts, peace within ourselves, and release what isn't.  Choose to be beholden to positive things in our lives.

Ada adjourns our Peace Speakers meeting with this quote:
"As we approach the season of Thanksgiving, let us live one day at a time, enjoy one moment at a time and accept hardship as a pathway to peace.  Let us dedicate ourselves to peace within ourselves that wherever we go, we bring peace and learn to find peace in all things, gathering in the fellowship of peace.  Happy Thanksgiving to all!"

If you're a visitor to this blog, I invite you to join us sometime and enjoy a Toastmasters experience.  Our members are warm and inviting, and we gently support each other as we become better speakers and leaders.  And who wouldn't want that?

We are an open Toastmasters club, 
so please pay us a visit!

OUR NEXT FEW 2014 MEETINGS:

 Dec. 3 - Conference Room B

 Dec. 17 - Conference Room B

Peace Speakers Toastmasters Club
1st and 3rd Wednesdays (usually)
1:00 - 2:00 p.m.
100 Witherspoon Street
Downtown Louisville, KY

Respectfully submitted,
Kay Chambers
Blogger for Peace Speakers
To access our previous blogs, here are the links
(We kept running out of space and needed to start new ones!)