Tuesday, February 27, 2018

Peace Speakers Committed to Olympian Outlook

The mission of a Toastmasters club is to provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment in which every individual member has the opportunity to develop oral communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self-confidence and personal growth. 


PRESIDENT PERRY OPENS OUR MEETING

Perry, our Peace Speakers president, opens our Toastmasters meeting with reference to today's agenda created by Betsy.  When his family lived in Minnesota, his son tried his hand at snow boarding and found it (to his surprise) very challenging. Perry notes that we also face challenges in life that bring us to Toastmasters where we fight through discomfort and adversity to achieve communication and leadership skills.  Like the Olympians, we struggle but overcome, and that takes commitment, which is the Word of the Day (in noun form).

PATHWAYS - A NEW OFFERING!

At our Peace Speakers meeting today, we embark on bringing Pathways into our awareness and usage.  It's Toastmasters International's revitalized educational program that's been rolling out worldwide recently.  A considerable upgrade from the original Legacy educational program, Pathways has more flexibility, choice and opportunities for growing communication and leadership.  

As the blogger, I volunteered to work with Perry to go to Toastmasters International online https://www.toastmasters.org and show our members and our guest just how simple it is to take the Pathways assessment.  I had established a password previously and logged in easily.  The questions were clear and the length of time for answering was minimal.  Out of 10 possible learning paths, 3 were suggested based on the responses I gave to their prompts.  I didn't choose a path today, but I will at a later date when I've given it some thought.  As a committed member of Peace Speakers, I plan to finish my 10th speech this year to earn my Legacy certificate.  In the meantime, I can still embark on Pathways, before or after my last speech in the Competent Communication Manual.  Lots of flexibility in Toastmasters...depending on my individual needs!


TOASTMASTER  MOVES US ALONG

Betsy, our Toastmaster for the day, runs with the theme of the Olympics for our meeting. With the PyeongChang Winter Olympics in full force, she knows that the athletes' Herculean efforts relate to our drive to overcome personal challenges as well, even if the skill sets are different. 

As the Toastmaster, Betsy developed the agenda for our meeting today and leads the educational part of our program.  This gives more members and willing guests the opportunity to speak and practice getting comfortable with communication and leadership roles.

Betsy introduces our prepared speaker for the day, sharing that even though Sharon has been a Toastmaster for a decade, she is new to our club, so she is giving an Ice Breaker speech today, which we love.

PREPARED SPEAKER, SHARON, TELLS US "WHO'S THIS CHICK?"

The basics of Sharon’s Ice Breaker speech are shared today in this blog.  When she began her speech, she said she used the word “chick” in the title in reference to herself because it denotes a lightness and fun, and that’s what she’s about.  As the blogger, I’m already interested in what she has to impart!

When you meet a person in the business setting or socially, one of the first questions you ask them is “What do you do?”  Generally, this question means “What do you do for a living?”  Over the past 40 years, I’ve had many different answers to this question.  In my twenties, the answer was “I’m a sales Manager for Frito Lay.  In my thirties, it was “I’m a mom and small business owner.”  As I moved into my forties, I answered with “I’m an entertainer and track mom.”  Now, I don’t really have an answer.

I don’t work for a big corporation.
I don’t run a business.
I don’t manage a team.

My kids are in college; I quit my job and moved into a simple loft apartment.  At first, I slept a lot.  Watched far too much TV, and took long walks with my dog.   Then I began asking myself, “What do you do?” All my adult life I have been identified by my marital status, my job title or my children’s level of achievement. 

Now when someone asks me, “What do you do?” my answer is “As little as possible.”  I learned to relax and enjoy my life.  Be sure, I work! I’m not independently wealthy. But I try to only do things that I enjoy.

Simon Sinek talks about understanding your “why”.  My why is to add value to whatever situation I decide to place myself into.  I’m employed at St. Stephen Baptist Church.  It doesn’t pay what I could make in a sales position, but I don’t care.  I see vision of how I can add value to the people I work with and the congregation for which I work. Right now, that is enough. I’m a mother of two 19-year-old college students and an employee of St. Stephen Church, and it’s most relaxed I’ve been in years.


And relaxed Sharon was giving this Ice Breaker speech!  With so many achievements under her belt, she's earned this more laid-back time in her life, which she keeps meaningful.  The Ice Breaker speech always gives us delightful and insightful information about our new members.


OLYMPIAN TABLE TOPICS

Our Table Topicsmaster, Eva, is on the prowl for members and any willing guests to answer questions she's created that relate to our Olympics theme.  This gives everyone at our meeting a chance to think on their feet and share a response that's 1-2 minutes in length.  It's fun, the answers are usually quite interesting, and it helps individuals grow their communication skills.  Eva asks for volunteers first.




The Olympics contribute to global peace and understanding by bringing together athletes from around the world to compete in a nonpolitical environment.  Do you agree?  Why or why not?

Betsy agrees that the environment at the Olympics is basically nonpolitical.  Athletes from all over the world compete and become friends.  One person congratulated the others who received medals.  It is obvious that their commitment and respect for others is awe-inspiring.


What is your favorite or least favorite sport in the Winter Olympics?

Dorothy, a visitor to our club today, shared that her least favorite, yet interesting sport is curling.  She finds it interesting that the U.S. team members won the gold, but she thought their moves made them look like they were just cleaning the floor.  Her favorite Olympics sports are figure ice skating and bob sledding.  (We love it when our guests jump in and play Table Topics with us!!!)


Many of the Olympic athletes have inspiring stories about overcoming odds and setbacks to become gold medal contenders.  Imagine that you're competing and tell us your story.

Kay says that as an Olympic ice skater, one of the biggest hurdles was just coming up with outfits that would fit her 6-foot frame, so she had to choose her tailor very carefully. And the long hours of practices she committed to day-in and day-out plus the costs of this sport were grueling.  Learning how to do the twizzles, flips and turns in sync with a partner was just so demanding. She loved ice skating in the Olympics, but it could be so debilitating!


     SPEECH EVALUATOR SHARES HER OPINION

Sharon's speech evaluator, Katie, notes there was great content and visuals for this Ice Breaker speech.  Dividing the speech into decades and sharing a PowerPoint image for each one made it interesting and easy to follow.  Katie notes that Sharon seemed very comfortable and that she is a natural storyteller.  She made us want to know more and suggested that the audience would have appreciated an expanded version to some of her stories.  She enjoyed Sharon's speech and looks forward to others she'll give in the following months.




Betsy begins to wind down the educational part of our meeting by calling on the members, who agreed to take on different roles, to give their reports.  After listening to those who spoke today, the Ah Counter/Grammarian shares the number of space fillers like "ah, um, you know" and the sentence shifts she heard.  There were at least 3 uses of the Word of the Day (committed).  The Vote Counter notes that Kay (your blogger) won the Table Topics votes for the best short talk, and the Timer shared how much time each speaker spoke, which keeps our meeting neatly packed into its 1-hour time frame.  Like the Olympics, we gave it our best shot today.  The practice empowers us.



Perry, our president, closes the meeting referring to the hometown favorite Korean speed skater who failed to win a gold medal and was so upset that the winner, a Japanese speed skater, rushed over to console her.  Similarly, Peace Speakers are supportive to those who give their best and need encouraging words to continue putting themselves out there.  Toastmasters is that and so much more!







If you're a visitor to this blog, you are likely thinking about making a life-changing decision to visit a Toastmasters meeting.  Whether you want to better prepare yourself for the rigors of professional life or want to improve your personal communication, Toastmasters has a path for you.  Pay us a visit soon!  Peace Speakers are friendly and will support you as you move your own pace through the program.  We look forward to bringing you into our club and working with you!

OUR NEXT 2018 MEETINGS:

Wed., Mar. 7 - Conference Room B

Wed., Mar. 21- Conference Room B
Due to inclement weather, we are canceling our Wednesday, March 21, Peace Speakers Toastmasters Club meeting.  We will back at 1:00 p.m. at 100 Witherspoon Street on Wednesday, April 4 for a meeting with as many as two prepared speeches.

Wed., Apr. 4 - Conference Room B

Wed., Apr. 18 - Conference Room B

Wed., May 2 - Conference Room B


Wed., May 1 - Conference Room B

Wed., June 6 - Conference Room B


Wed., Apr. 20 - Conference Room B

Blog visitors, it's been a while since I've been able to blog our meetings, but they are still continuing every 1st and 3rd Wednesdays.  Please visit us!

Peace Speakers Toastmasters Club
1st and 3rd Wednesdays (usually)
1:00 - 2:00 p.m.
100 Witherspoon Street
Downtown Louisville, KY

Respectfully submitted,
Kay Chambers
Blogger for Peace Speakers
and VP of Education