Thursday, September 10, 2015

Laudable Actions Common for Peace Speakers

The mission of a Toastmasters club is to provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment in which every individual member has the opportunity to develop oral communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self-confidence and personal growth.

 


Our president of Peace Speakers, Catherine, opens our meeting by extending a warm welcome to guests and members.  It is one of the many laudable actions Peace Speakers take.  Laudable, our Word for the Day, means praiseworthy or commendable. Our members often extend themselves...working with each other to help in any way they can.  Visitors are warmly received and are encouraged to participate in our meetings as well, if they so desire.



Eric leads our invocation today.  While walking the other day, he noticed some of the Bradford Pear trees are losing their leaves.  Thinking of fall, he shares a Robert Frost poem with us today: 

Gathering Leaves
  By Robert Frost

Spades take up leaves
No better than spoons, 
And bags full of leaves
Are light as balloons.

I make a great noise
Of rustling all day
Like rabbit and deer
Running away.

But the mountains I raise
Elude my embrace,
Flowing over my arms
And into my face.

I may lead and unload
Again and again
Till I fill the whole shed, 
And what have I then?

Next to nothing for weight,
And since they grew duller
From contact with earth,
Next to nothing for color.

Next to nothing for use,
But a crop is a crop,
And who's to say where
The harvest shall stop?


 
Our past president, Robin, shares news from a previous member of Peace Speakers. Becky Johnson made laudable comments about our Toastmasters club, saying that now as a school teacher she feels confident speaking in front of the children.  She credits this to the practice she received at our meetings for Peace Speakers.

Robin also shares that Kristi's husband is having surgery.  She asks that we keep him and his family in our prayers. 






Our Joke Master for the day, Perry, spins a tale related to our Labor Day theme for today's meeting:

A young worker and his boss are standing by the company's shredder.  The boss holds up a piece of paper and announces, "This is a very important document."  He looks at the young worker and asks, "Can you take care of it for me?"  The young worker replies confidently, "Sure thing!" and promptly slips the document into the shredder, as the boss finishes saying, "And I just need one copy."




Vicki Rice, our new Area 66 Governor, paid a visit to our club today.  How laudable!!!!!  And after hearing her speak so positively and vivaciously, it's easy to feel that shared excitement ourselves.  Vicki also loves her work with Texas Roadhouse and handles various legal matters for them.

She shared a few points of interest with us:
  • District 11's Fall conference is Nov. 6-7, 2015 in Fort Wayne, IN:  Fall Conference
  • Check out the upcoming fall contests: District 11 Contests
  • Toastmasters is plugging "8 is great!" in hopes that members will get 8 speeches done in a year.  It's doable!!
  • Continue the thrust to add new members to our club.
  • Our club can practice having a contest so we can conduct a real one some time.
  • In January, have members start shadowing the officers to prepare them for the change of office in July.
  • Consider being the Area Governor 66!  You must have served as a VP of Education or the President of a Toastmasters club and completed 6 speeches to qualify.                                                                       

Vicki adds that she loves our agenda format and plans to incorporate it at her club sometime.  This is what's so laudable about Toastmasters.  You can visit other clubs and utilize the ideas you like.  Attending Toastmasters conferences and contests allows you to hear wonderful speeches and make meaningful connections with interesting people.  




With an important holiday approaching this September weekend, Ada, our Toastmaster for the day, shares that the theme of our meeting is Labor Day.  The idea for protecting workers began back in 1872 in Toronto, Canada.   Labor Day is celebrated the first Monday in September and was created by the labor movement, which is dedicated to social and economic achievements of American workers.

Ada introduces our prepared speaker of the day, who is Robin.  This is Robin's 6th speech, and it focuses on Vocal Variety.  The title is "Karaoke:  Best Practices", and we clap enthusiastically as Robin comes up to the podium.

                        Karaoke: Best Practices


The word karaoke stems from the Japanese words “kara” and “Oke Su Tora”.  It translates to “empty orchestra” or someone who loves to sing the lead vocal to a well-known song.   If you’ve never karaoked before, it goes like this:
1.   You pick a song from a list of thousands of songs.
2.   The karaoke DJ calls your name. You take to the stage.
3.    Lyrics are displayed on a TV screen.
4.   A moving symbol guides you through the lyrics.

Every year for my birthday my husband plans a karaoke party for me. I’m always the first one to sign up to sing. And I sing the whole night. And I LOVE it!
Because I love singing karaoke so much, I’m going to share with you tips on picking the perfect karaoke song. First of all, when most people karaoke, they think of themselves as contestants on The Voice. I think people should think of themselves more as a temporary DJ for the party.

Next, it’s up to you to pick a really great song that sets the mood for fun.  When I pick songs for karaoke, I have three best practices:
  • Is the song appropriate?
  • How will I sound singing it? 
  • How will it make people feel?
The first step in picking a song is “Is the song appropriate?”  MOST IMPORTANT!  At a work Christmas party?  Stay away from songs with explicit lyrics or suggestive lyrics.  At a wedding?  Don’t sing Carrie Underwood’s “Before He Cheats”.  (Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats!) Be considerate of others and pick a short-to-average time song.  And I don’t care if Don McLean shows up at your party — DO NOT sing “American Pie!”  I once made this mistake by singing “Rappers Delight.”  This song is 8 minutes long!   (Robin gives us a taste of it.)

Next, how will I sound singing it?  Be realistic about your singing ability.  It’s impossible to sing any ballad by Whitney Houston. (Robin begins to sing “I Will Always Love You” using a make-shift microphone, but doesn’t keep going to the end.)

You should choose a song that you’re passionate about and one you can relate to.  Rough time at work? Choose “9 to 5” and think of your boss.   (Robin commences to sing intensely into her mic, Workin' 9 to 5, what a way to make a livin'; Barely gettin' by, it's all takin' and no givin'…”) I guarantee it will be a great performance, and probably therapeutic too.

Last, how will it make people feel?
Pick songs that are well-known and get other people singing, like the duet song “Summer Nights” from Grease or a one-hit wonder like “Breakfast at Tiffany’s” by Deep Blue Something.  (Again, Robin sings a bit of it holding the fake mic dramatically.)  And if you’re with Girlfriends, karaoke the song, “Girls Just Want to Have Fun.”  With the guys? Try Country Classic. Or, if you’re like my husband when he’s out with HIS FRIENDS, you’ll channel your inner 90’s boy-band and sing Backstreet Boys’ “I Want It That Way.”

I hope the next time YOU karaoke you will keep these best practices in mind.  Picking a great song is important — and it’s also important to be a good listener. Karaoke is all about having fun!  And it’s easy to have fun when you’re singing along with friends.




Now THAT'S what Toastmasters call "vocal variety"!!!  At the conclusion of Robin's delightful speech, it was obvious that smiling listeners found it most laudable.  It's easy to praise such a commendable effort on the part of a speaker, especially when they're willing to sing for us, too!


Okay, now it's time for TABLE TOPICS!   Catherine's hidden some prompts inside the table tents envelope that relate to Labor Day.  "Who wants to be the first victim, I mean volunteer?" she asks.  Everyone knows that pulling a question can be a little unnerving, but it's fun and gets you thinking on your feet.






What's a favorite job you had in which you felt like you contributed to society?

Betsy says she's held several jobs and retired just 3 years ago.  Her favorite, though, is working as a Mary Kay consultant.  She even had a $1,000 day just last week!  For 26 years, she's met and helped all kinds of people and developed good friendships all over the country.  It's been profitable and she's had a lot of fun as well.




How will you spend your upcoming Labor Day weekend?

In the past, George says he watched a lot of football.  He admires the spirit of workers but can't recall the last time he honored the day.  He has personally done a lot of restaurant work previously and finds it laudable that we celebrate Labor Day.  This year he'll be off work, will likely play on his computer, lay back, and do nothing.



If you could change one thing about American employment, what would it be and why?

Vicki says she'd like to toss the EEOC (Equal Employment Opportunity Commission) into the ocean because things have gotten skewed.  Over 70,000 complaints have been filed (some may be frivolous) but many others are valid discrimination claims that need attention.  Some are covered by Title 7 or are religious or sexual discrimination claims (to name a few).  She'd like a magic wand to get them to focus on all of the valid claims.


If you won the lottery tomorrow and no longer needed to work for income, how would you spend your time?

Alex claims he'd travel while he's young and go see places he normally wouldn't get to see.  He'd follow a passion...even continue his role as a nurse and do public service...maybe even start his own wellness clinic to help the community avoid hospital stays. 





If you could be an instant expert at any job, what would you choose and why?

Perry says he works at the Books-A-Million bookstore and tries to get people to become millionaire book members.  He loves having great connections with people and selling things.  He's met all kinds of people, so if he could be an expert at something, it'd be talking with people about their lives and books.




Members and guests consider what they've heard and vote for the extemporaneous speech that has caught their attention the most.  Today's winner is Alex, and he gets to keep the Table Topics trophy until we convene again in mid-September.  It's laudable that Alex would choose to continue working on the behalf of the community even if he won the lottery.  




Eva, evaluator for Robin's "vocal variety" speech, says it was a laudable speech.  She marvels that Robin stepped in at the last minute with a wonderfully entertaining speech.  She says it had great content and the subject was well-chosen.  Robin was expressive and obviously enjoyed singing.  She loved the "3 Best Practices" Robin gave for doing Karaoke.  She felt the speed of delivery was good, and there was little reliance on notes.  To improve this speech, maybe there could have been a few more dramatic pauses and maybe Robin could have shared what drew her to Karaoke in the first place.





All good (and laudable) things must come to a close, so Peace Keepers conclude their meeting soon thereafter.  Members and guests hang around to commend each other on their presentations or just chat.  It's an easy and sweet conclusion.

If you're a visitor to this blog, this is what often goes on in a Toastmasters meeting.  People are given opportunities in advance to take on roles or just speak spontaneously during Table Topics.  Others choose to give prepared speeches.  You progress as quickly as you like!  Come visit us sometime.  We're a warm and friendly group seeking to better ourselves!


OUR NEXT FEW 2015 MEETINGS:

Sept. 16- Conference Room B


Oct. 7 - Conference Room B


Peace Speakers Toastmasters Club
1st and 3rd Wednesdays (usually)
1:00 - 2:00 p.m.
Presbyterian Center
100 Witherspoon Street
Downtown Louisville, KY

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Kay Chambers
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