Thursday, March 5, 2015

Peace Speakers Meet Despite an Encroaching Wintery Blizzard

The mission of a Toastmasters club is to provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment in which every individual member has the opportunity to develop oral communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self-confidence and personal growth.

 

Presiding Officer Kerri opens our Peace Speakers meeting with a warm welcome on a blistery winter day.  She notes that she is up front because our president and others at the Presbyterian Center have a previous work commitment that prevents them from attending. A few other members were detained at their work sites in preparation for a snow day tomorrow with the prediction of 6-12 inches of snowfall. None-the-less, 7 of us forged through the current rain and sleet to enjoy our club's camaraderie and opportunities for growth.

 

Kerri noted that 4 people attended this quarter's club officer training:  Robin, Megan, Perry, and Lynn.  We appreciate these members' commitment to excellence and to growing Peace Speakers.

 

Perry  reminded us to get our club dues to him either before or by the next meeting on March 18.  As a member who knows how beneficial this on-going practice is, I am most grateful that we only pay a mere $39 for 6 months of membership in Toastmasters.  What a bargain!


                                  INVOCATION FITS THE SEASON

 


As the blogger and Invocation leader today, I admit that winter’s grip has been ruthless the past few weeks. So I've chosen to share some wintery quotes in hopes of invoking some reflection and maybe even a smile:



“The first fall of snow is not only an event, it is a magical event. You go to bed in one kind of a world and wake up in another, quite different, and if this is not enchantment then where is it to be found?” ~J.B. Priestley

"He who marvels at the beauty of the world in summer will find equal cause for wonder and admiration in winter...for in winter the stars seem to have rekindled their fires, the moon achieves a fuller triumph, and the heavens wear a look of a more exalted simplicity."

And in reading this next quote by the same author, I thought of Eva, who is an artist:  "What a severe yet master artist old winter is! No longer the canvas and the pigments, but the marble and the chisel."~Both quotes from John Burroughs

Here's Charles Kingsley, Jr., who writes about the seasonal love affair between the earth and the sun:
          Every winter,
          When the great sun has turned his face away,
          The earth goes down into the vale of grief,
          And fasts, and weeps, and shrouds herself in sables,
          Leaving her wedding-garlands to decay—
          Then leaps in spring to his {the sun’s} returning kisses.

Then there’s Robert Byrne’s more flippant view of this season:
         Winter is nature’s way of saying, "Up yours."

And finally, from Ruth Stout~ "There is a privacy about winter which no other season gives you.  In spring, summer and fall, we sort of have an open season on each other.  Only in the winter can you have longer, quiet stretches, when you can savor belonging to yourself.  So let us love winter, for it is the spring of genius."

With that in mind, Toastmasters, let’s hunker down in front of a fireplace (or a heater) this evening and begin planning the next creative presentation our rich imaginations can assemble. 

JOKE MASTER SPINS A YARN

 

Kerri shares a joke relayed to her by Lynn, who was unable to fulfill her role today due to the inclement weather and work demands:

 

Two friends lived in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada. They were sick of winter, so they went to a travel agent and booked a trip to Australia.  When the two friends got off the plane - still wearing their down jackets, wool hats and snow boots - they wandered into a pub and sat down.  

The locals wondered about these strangers, so one of the Aussies walked over to the visitors and said, "G'day, mates.  Where're you from?"
"Saskatoon, Saskatchewan," one of the Canadians replied.
"Oh," said the Aussie, returning to his table. 
"So where are they from?" the other locals asked. 
"Don't know," replied the Aussie.  "They don't appear to speak English." 


TOASTMASTER COMES ON BOARD 


Perry, Toastmaster for the day, notes the snowy picture atop the agenda he's prepared for this meeting. We can all relate to the women who've just shoveled their driveway, especially knowing that Mother Nature will dump up to a foot of snow on us tonight.  This is the month of March, isn't it?????



TABLE TOPICS MASTER USES A NOVEL STRATEGY

 

 

 

Table Topics Master, Kristi (in the blue sweater), offers members cards with prompts that are written in braille.   Tanja is the first person to volunteer, and her question is transcribed for her as follows: 

  

Describe a new hobby or one you'd like to pursue.

 

Tanja shares that she's been experimenting with meditation for a number of years.  2 1/2 years ago she went to a very serious meditation class that met every Thursday.  She was supposed to practice daily for 10 minutes in a special chair.  She ended up making a big circle around that chair and refusing to sit in it.  Then, in an ashram in Indonesia, she did a shaking meditation that helped her get over her fear of meditation and got her more involved in it.  She also did a Vipassana meditation retreat about 1 1/2 years ago in the U.S.  It was for 10 days, and they meditated for 10 hours a day, which was very challenging.  Now Tanja does 25 minutes of meditation every morning, and she feels so liberated and inspired. 

 

 

     

 

What is your favorite book or author?

 

Megan admits this question is challenging because she loves to read and enjoys so many types of literature and numerous authors.  She narrows it down to Margaret Atwood, an author who writes fiction, poetry and short stories. She mentions Atwood's book, Cat's Eye, and says it's about reflections on the past and alternates between memories of childhood and older years.  It's written from a female perspective, and Megan admits that she connects better with female authors but also enjoys male writers as well.



Tell us about a cruise you've taken.

 

Kerri admits that she's been on several cruises, thanks to the generosity of her parents.  Her favorite was one she did in Italy with family friends.  The mother in the other family is a childhood friend of her dad's.  That family has 3 daughters, two who are the same ages as Kerri's sister and her.  It was really nice to spend time on board with others her age.  Kerri was really shocked  how strong the middle eastern influence is in Tunisia.  It was a big eye-opener as to how little she knew about culture and geography.  It made her realize how much she needed to learn!  And she also enjoyed all the food, especially the delicious midnight chocolate buffet. She doesn't regret the extra calories in the least!

 

What unexpected turn did you have during a job interview?

 

Eva admits that it's been so long since she's done an interview and doesn't recall any unexpected turn that she experienced in the past.  She notes that when she was interviewed years ago, they asked standard questions like, "Tell us about your background and your work experience."  Today they're likely to ask creative questions like, "If you were an animal, which one would be be and why?"  Had this been posed to her during an interview, she might have transgressed and not be able to answer it.  (By the way, transgressed is the Word of the Day, and kudos for using it, Eva!)



If your favorite color is blue, why do you love the color red?

 

I love blue because it's the color of the sky and the ocean and represents calm, but I love red because it represents excitement and passion.  It is the color of vibrant red apples and grapes, which I adore.  It also reminds me of the time I traveled to France and allowed a mime on the streets of Paris to talk me into wearing a bright red clown's nose. It wasn't my nature, but he encouraged me to copy his mime act in front of an audience.  That red nose got me out of my comfort zone that day and made for a lot of fun! 



What is friendship to you?


Perry says that friendship is important, even though he didn't have a lot of friends in school when he was growing up.  However, he did have friends at church.  He's tried to stay in touch with friends on Facebook, but many of them don't participate in FB.  He went back to his hometown to live for a year with 2 of his dearest and best friends, and he spend time with them whenever he went back to visit his mother.  His best friend plans events like kayaking when he visits, so he always has friends waiting for his arrival.  He's made an effort to stay in touch by persevering and connecting with these friends whenever he can.  




And the winner of Table Topics is...

We have a tie!  Kerri and Kay received the most votes and tied, so each of us gets a trophy and bragging rights until our next meeting.  This impromptu 1-2 minute talk called Table Topics sometimes throws us for a loop, but the practice of answering a prompt without planning is invaluable.  One learns to think on their feet and develop skills for answering a variety of questions.  Even if you get stuck, you can veer off in another direction.  Perfection isn't expected, but cohesiveness is desirable.


We didn't allow the inclement weather to keep us from meeting but did lose our prepared speech for the day.  So we close this meeting, not feeling any loss but gratitude for those who showed up and the fact that everyone participated and enjoyed themselves.  That's a standard that Peace Speakers keep, and that's why the club has so many long-standing members and new ones joining  us intermittently!

If you're a visitor to this blog, drop in sometime!  We're a friendly club that's opening and welcoming.   Come get your questions answered about Toastmasters and allow yourself to grow and flourish.


We are an open Toastmasters club, 
so please pay us a visit!

OUR NEXT FEW 2015 MEETINGS:

  Mar. 18 - Conference Room B


  Apr. 1 - Conference Room B


Peace Speakers Toastmasters Club
1st and 3rd Wednesdays (usually)
1:00 - 2:00 p.m.
100 Witherspoon Street
Downtown Louisville, KY

Respectfully submitted,
Kay Chambers
Blogger for Peace Speakers
To access our previous blogs, here are the links
(We kept running out of space and needed to start new ones!) 




Monday, December 29, 2014

Peace Speakers Elucidate Often!

The mission of a Toastmasters club is to provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment in which every individual member has the opportunity to develop oral communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self-confidence and personal growth.

Ada opens our Peace Speakers meeting while Robin, our president, is out on maternity leave.  She gets Peace Speakers in the holiday mode by asking each of us to share one word for the Christmas season.  Some of the words shared are joy, peace, family, dreams, and cheer.  

With our invocation leader absent today, Ada creates an invocation on the spur of the moment.  The word of the day is elucidate, which means to make something clear or explain.  I'd like to elucidate that Ada is calm and accomplished in doing this spontaneous invocation, and it sounds as though she's worked on it for hours.  I think Ada would tell me this wouldn't be the case had she not been so consistently involved in Toastmasters and honed her speaking and thinking skills throughout the years.

                                 
Connie and Maria
Ada also introduces a guest, Maria, who is taking classes at JCC and U of L.  This is Connie's adopted daughter, and she says Maria is a very humble, positive, and angelical spirit.  We are honored to have her with us today!  (Please forgive the side shot of the two I sat beside.  I forgot to get full-face photos afterwards!)


Catherine, Vice President of Education, notes that our Area 66 Governor, John Frederick, sent her an email outlining several opportunities for officers' training in the near future.  She will send members this information soon.  No matter how many times one has served in an officer's role, there is always something new to be learned from attending these trainings, and it's an opportunity to meet and confer with other Toastmasters in our area.





JOKE MASTER SHARES SOME LETTERS

Kay, Joke Master for the day and your blogger, shares letters written by children to Santa.  Allow me to elucidate that these letters have some childlike misspellings in them that I haven't changed. I have also added a few images to further help you understand them.


Dear Santa, 

How are you and the reindeer doing?  I'm doing fine.  I want a new football because my little brother always trys to steal mine.  He may look sweet but he is the DEVIL.

P.S.  How do you get in to my house on Christmas?



Dear Santa, 

My mom said to send you are christmas list.  Kids at school are still picking on Amber
and its not fair because she doesn't do anything to them and it makes me mad.  I prayed that they will stop but god is bisy and needs your help.  Is it against the rules to give gifts early?  Can you ask Big Time Rush to come to Amber's B-day party?  It will make her so happy.  If you can't get them to come, just get her everything she ask for. Thanks Santa.  

P.S.  My mom throw the best B-day partys. You can come if you want.
 FYI, readers!  This is Big Time Rush.


Dear Santa,

We think you might be poisoned by the cookies, so don't eat them.  Mom went wrong somewere.  This is our first year with Callie, our new cat.  Please put her presents in the stocking with the dog on it.  As you might know our dog Moddie died.  So please don't try to remind mom or she will break out sobbing.  We have all been very good this year.  We hope you don't have a bad ride.  

P.S.  Santa your the best ever!



Andrew Bynum
Dear Santa,

Can you help Andrew Bynum get taller?  I know he's already super tall, but he hasn't gotten a lot of rebounds in a long time, so I guess he needs to be taller. 

Sometimes when I stand on MY tippy toes, I can reach the cookie jar even though my Mommy moves it to the back of the counter.  But that's the only naughty thing I've done, so is it okay if I ask for a bike?


Dear Santa, 

You better bring my pony this year.

Or there will be consequenses!

(This letter had a primitive drawing of a horse rearing up on it.) 


A TOASTMASTER'S FIRST EXPERIENCE

Eventually, our newer members take the helm and volunteer to be the Toastmaster for a meeting.  On this occasion, we get to enjoy the leadership of Megan, our Toastmaster for the day.  Her role involves contacting those who have agreed to fill the club's roles on this day and conferring with them about a possible theme for our meeting.  She prepares the agenda, tops it with a thoughtful image, and sets the tone for the educational part of our meeting.  She introduces speakers and keeps our meeting moving along smoothly.

As Toastmaster, Megan moves gracefully from one activity to the next.  She emphasizes a Japanese Proverb on a wintery image atop our agenda that says, "One kind word can warm three winter months."  As Peace Speakers, this speaks to the core of who we are.


TABLE TOPICS DRAW OUT PEOPLE


Kerri, our Table Topics Master for the day, offers up a tray of prompts to get people sharing.  She asks for volunteers first, hoping that members or guests will raise their hands.  Her questions pertain to the holiday season, and this gives individuals a chance to spontaneously practice thinking and speaking skills.






What’s your favorite holiday tradition? How did it start and why is it so special to you?

Catherine shares that going to her non-in-laws for Christmas is her favorite holiday tradition.  She loves going to John and Eva's because they treat her like a daughter even though they are not blood relatives. They're all one big family:  John and Eva, her parents, brother, sister-in-law and nephew.  The tradition began 7-8 years ago when their nephew was born.  From that time on they began meeting outside of Knoxville, TN, for their annual holiday gathering.



If you could only get one gift, what would you ask for this holiday season?

Connie ponders thoughtfully and decides that the one gift she most wants is creativity.  She admits that she's not working right now.  She feels that she needs to come up with something different.  Creativity isn't a thing, but it will give her an answer.  Creativity will bring her a car, a house, and everything she wants if she uses it appropriately. 





What’s your least favorite part about the holiday season and why? 
  
Eva shares that the least favorite part of this season for her is the commercialism.  She typically avoids the malls and instead plans ahead to pick up gifts when traveling.  She also goes online to avoid the crowded stores.  She adds that people don't need more stuff.  She likes the tradition of giving and its thoughtfulness, but sometimes she feels like she'd enjoy it more without the commercial type gifts.





Share the New Year’s Resolutions you've planned for 2015, if you have any.

Ada admits that she's has set no resolutions at this time.  Traditionally, she doesn't bother since she never follows through with them.  However, she does have some goals and to-do lists that she compiles.  If accomplished, that will make her New Year's resolution possibility even greater!




Did you catch any extra good deals this holiday season? If so, what were they and where did you find them?

Kay admits that she does a lot of her shopping on Discover.com using points earned to get gift cards that her relatives desire for Christmas.  She also went online looking for a request of Smartwool socks, which she learned were VERY expensive at $15-20 per pair.  She found them on sale for around $12 with free shipping, and found a book on Amazon for half price that was actually new. 




What’s your favorite part about the holiday season and why?

Megan shares that her favorite part of this holiday season is actually two-fold.  She gets to go home to her parents and she also gets time off from work.  This gives her an opportunity to relax, travel some, and see the family.  She makes a point to slow down, focus on family and have fun.  One of her favorite activities is relaxing in her pajamas and watching Netflix.





Do you have any holiday plans this year? If so, share them with us!

Lynn tells us that her husband's family comes to their home for the holidays.  They actually have 2 Christmases on 2 different days.  It's a bit of a roller coaster with 2 dinners and 2 celebrations to prepare for and to participate in during the holiday season.  She admits to being excited but also a little overwhelmed.



Members enjoying other Table Topics responses




After the vote, Kerri announces the winner for the best Table Topics talk, which only lasts 1-2 minutes.  Connie, who wished for the gift of creativity this holiday season, earns the most votes.  She is awarded the Table Topics trophy and gets to keep it until our next meeting on January 7, 2015.  That's a really great way to bring in the New Year, Connie!



 

Megan closes the educational part of our program asking us to take warmth and positive energy out with us this holiday season.  She reminds us again that our interactions with others...just one kind word...can warm people's hearts during these cold winter months.




Ada adjourns our Peace Speakers meeting reminding us that this is our final gathering in 2014.  She hopes we all find happiness in this season and experience the spirit of Christmas.  She wishes us peace, hope and love, and adds the reminder that gas prices are down, which gives us even more reasons for joy.  She looks forward to 2015 with all of its offerings.




And to those who have visited these blogged pages, please grace us with your company and pay us a visit in the New Year.  We promise to be welcoming and civil plus fun and educational.  What a great way to start 2015!!!!

We are an open Toastmasters club, 
so please pay us a visit!

OUR NEXT FEW 2015 MEETINGS:

 Jan. 7 - Conference Room B


 Jan. 21 - Conference Room B


Peace Speakers Toastmasters Club
1st and 3rd Wednesdays (usually)
1:00 - 2:00 p.m.
100 Witherspoon Street
Downtown Louisville, KY

Respectfully submitted,
Kay Chambers
Blogger for Peace Speakers
To access our previous blogs, here are the links
(We kept running out of space and needed to start new ones!)